So many times, people will knock you down during your highest and lowest moments. They'll see your happiness and tear it apart or they'll see you at your saddest and continue to break you.
It has happened to the best of us, especially me. And sometimes, I am the one who's putting myself down.
Society has such high standards for everyone. Girls need to be certain weight, flawless face, a good set of assets, and a curvy behind. Guys have to be tall, fit, and are capable of taking care of their spouse, no questions asked.
If you're not what society is looking for, then you're doomed. At least that's what they're teaching us.
But you know what, does it really matter? No one should be telling you who to be and what to be. Ask yourself this, why are you letting them dictate your life? Why are you allowing people to tell you that you're good enough?
Sure, most of us will never be that perfect size of 0-2, we might never have the perfect skin, and we might never be buff/fit enough, but we shouldn't punish ourselves because we're going not up to par with the high standards of life.
Girls, don't starve yourselves because people are telling you that you are fat or chubby. Don't EVER forget to tell yourself that you are good enough, for yourself AND for that special someone. You are an AMAZING person. This goes out for the guys too!
Guys, don't let people tell you that being nice will get you to last place. Don't let anyone tell you that you're not good enough for the girl you want or you're that hot enough for anyone.
You are all ENOUGH, y'all are SPECIAL, and don't EVER FORGET that!
Sometimes, I forget that I am enough, that I am pretty enough, stretch marks and all.
When you have so many dreams and goals in life, people will try to talk you out of them. DON'T LET THEM! They are YOUR goals and I know you will achieve them!
I know I have been told so many times by my mom that I am too much goals and dreams and that I need to keep my feet on the ground. But, I don't want to. Those are what keeps me motivated and happy.
So you know what, IF YOU LOVE WHAT YOU DO, THEN DO IT! Nobody is going to make you the happiest other than yourself.
So next time someone tries to tear you apart, tell them this or if you are not the confrontation type of person, tell yourself this:
I AM STRONG! I AM BEAUTIFUL! I AM AMAZING! I AM SPECIAL! I AM UNIQUE! I AM SOMEONE WORTH FIGHTING FOR! And no one will break me!!!
You know, I always here this phrase, "You have to love yourself first before loving someone else."
xoxo,
Kristyll
Girls, don't starve yourselves because people are telling you that you are fat or chubby. Don't EVER forget to tell yourself that you are good enough, for yourself AND for that special someone. You are an AMAZING person. This goes out for the guys too!
Guys, don't let people tell you that being nice will get you to last place. Don't let anyone tell you that you're not good enough for the girl you want or you're that hot enough for anyone.
You are all ENOUGH, y'all are SPECIAL, and don't EVER FORGET that!
Sometimes, I forget that I am enough, that I am pretty enough, stretch marks and all.
When you have so many dreams and goals in life, people will try to talk you out of them. DON'T LET THEM! They are YOUR goals and I know you will achieve them!
I know I have been told so many times by my mom that I am too much goals and dreams and that I need to keep my feet on the ground. But, I don't want to. Those are what keeps me motivated and happy.
So you know what, IF YOU LOVE WHAT YOU DO, THEN DO IT! Nobody is going to make you the happiest other than yourself.
So next time someone tries to tear you apart, tell them this or if you are not the confrontation type of person, tell yourself this:
I AM STRONG! I AM BEAUTIFUL! I AM AMAZING! I AM SPECIAL! I AM UNIQUE! I AM SOMEONE WORTH FIGHTING FOR! And no one will break me!!!
You know, I always here this phrase, "You have to love yourself first before loving someone else."
xoxo,
Kristyll
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