Don't Give Up!

Hey my lovelies!

Today is just one of those days when I feel like giving up. So my post is about positivity and believing in yourself just to remind myself and for those who are feeling a little down, to never give up.

Let's start at the beginning, shall we? So there's this important event happening this week and I've been so excited planning it and really trying to make it an enjoyable evening for the guest. 

And you know when you're so excited to share your ideas and such to people but you only get, "Oh okay. That's cool. Um yeah." It's such a huge Titanic to my heart. For those who don't know me, I love planning and I put my time and my heart into them. To have reactions like that really breaks my spirit because I'm doing something I love and it's not generating the response I pictured in my head.

Now I'm not a negative person, I look for that light at the end of the tunnel. It's just sometimes I tend to dwell on such things for a few minutes...or hours. But then I get over it. I mean there's really nothing I can do about that but move on. 

To be honest, this is why at times I like working by myself. Because I know my limit and I know if I really loved what I was planning then I'm going to whatever it takes to make sure it comes out to the way I really wanted it to. And when I work with people who doesn't have that passion, really just makes me want to pull my hair out.

But at the end of the day really, knowing that I put everything I had to that project makes me happy. Even if it might not happen, at least I know I made the effort to really make that happen. 

So when people shot down your idea or things that makes you feel like you need to just give up. Just ignore them. Take a few minutes to yourself or even an hour. How ever long you need to reassure yourself that it's not the end, do it! Then if it really does not make you feel better, write! Write in your journal. Listen to music, that's really helping me right now. Just do whatever distracts you from that negativity. 

Just remember to SMILE and KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! 

Love you lots,

Kristyll