In memory of my high school years, I decided to do a video on some things that I definitely learned while in school. These aren't the top 5 or anything, I learned so much but these were the ones I remembered. I filmed a video of it for YouTube which I will post sometime soon.
But like I said, these were the ones that stood out when I was brainstorming. Of course, there are many more things I learned, which I will probably do another video on or something.
So yeah, here are the five things I learned:
- Friends will leave you!! - I'm not saying you won't have anymore friends by the time high school is over. I'm saying that every single friend you have in school, you will lose contact with them after you graduate! Or there will be some drama and they end up not talking to you anymore instead of trying to resolve things. Yeah, that happened. And it really sucked because I considered her a good friend. But people will leave you, no matter if it's high school, college, or when you're an adult. You will lose friends and that's the cycle of life. You may have a lot of friends now, but think about it, who are the realest of those friends? The ones you know you will be friends with for a lifetime?
- You will not meet "The One" - This kind of really bugs me, I see a lot of girls putting their HS boyfriends as their #1 priority and they just lose touch with everything around them, such as their grades and their friends. I've lost friends temporarily/permanently because they put so much focus on their boyfriends that we didn't have anything in common anymore. Our conversations were about what that boy did or whatever and I tried to be supportive but I guess it just wasn't enough. If you do have a boyfriend/girlfriend, divide your time with them and with your friends and make sure your friends and s/o gets along!
- Get INVOLVED! - Don't be so scared to join sports and clubs in school, they are your gateway to making friends :) I didn't join any sports until junior year and I didn't get involved in clubs until my senior year. I did meet friends but I believe that you will meet more people you have a lot in common with if you get involved in school activities. Don't hide. If you got talent, SHOW it!
- Leave DRAMA behind! - So many people love to bring their middle school drama to high school and it's the most annoying thing ever! You're in high school now, so leave that MS stuff behind. And yes, people will create drama in HS but it's your choice to be involved or to just ignore the BS. There will be times when you hear nasty rumors about you but just let it go. And if you can't, then get to the bottom of it and once you do and you resolve it, LEAVE it in the PAST!
- HAVE FUN!!! - So many people forget to do this. They forget to relax and enjoy high school because they are so wrapped up in boy drama or girl drama that their high school life is all about that. Yes, there will be times when things get so rough but please don't let that discourage you! Don't be so negative about high school because those rough patches will pass by and after every storm, there's a rainbow. :)
I believe that's basically it you guys!
What about you? What are the things that you learned in high school? What did you love/hate about school? Leave a comment down below :))
Once the video is up and about on YouTube, I will update this post. As of now, its just this little page :)
xoxo,
Kristyll <3
And the video is finally up and running y'all so here it is!! :D Enjoy!
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